Thursday, September 1

Trail Photos of the day

 I have been more faithful about getting my walk in and these are the shots of today...


Goldenrod



It Is Iowa so guess what this is!


Corn and Pampas




"Spokeswoman"



Wednesday, August 31

So Very True...

 

Quote of the day

“‘After all,’ Anne had said to Marilla once, ‘I believe the nicest and sweetest days are not those on which anything very splendid or wonderful or exciting happens but just those that bring simple little pleasures, following one another softly, like pearls slipping off a string.’” —L.M. Montgomery

Tuesday, August 30

Leave here with a laugh and other Stuff

 

We need a 12-step group for compulsive talkers. They could call it On Anon Anon. —Paula Poundstone

We attended an impromptu family reunion this past weekend and I have decided that is the best way to do one. That way you can take the angst out of it. No matter what date you set there will always be those who can come and those who cannot. It was a great event and we talked to many who we have only seen once in a blue moon.

I am frequently amazed as to how life's little foibles can fall into place. A friend from the park in Texas called me to catch up on what is going on with them and us. And in the course of the conversation, I told her we had lost the keys to our park model. She told me that her partner was a former firefighter and he had the tools to enter homes without keys. It is part of a firefighter's job but something I never thought about. So she called me back last night and told me he had entered and recovered a key for us! One more little snafu off our list. It is wonderful when those little worrisome things can be removed from the list of things to "fix". We are grateful!!

Things that have caught my eye lately...

Mushroom


Do you see that little spot of fall color in the upper middle of the pic?

Simply beautiful


                                                                         At the Depot

More Mushrooms



Sunday, August 28

Laugh of the Week

 


When I was a kid, my parents would always say “Pardon my French” after a swear word. I’ll never forget that first day at school when the teacher asked if we knew any French.

Friday, August 26

Confucius Quotes


I have had a fondness for Confucious for a very long time.😊

10 Quotes That Reveal the Wisdom of Confucius

 

To Confucius, happiness came not through gluttony and self-indulgence, but through frugality and duty to others. He believed fulfilling the needs of others could also fill oneself with serenity and gratitude. Forgoing one’s duty to serve, on the other hand, could have wider damaging effects: A ruler who ignored the needs of their subjects might unbalance the cosmos and suffer a reign beset with natural disasters.

Confucius set out four simple virtues that he believed were enough to keep the world in its proper order: benevolence, moral wisdom, righteousness, and observance of traditional rituals. According to Confucianism, ritual brings together a community in peace and helps to cultivate “ren,” a Chinese word meaning humanity, goodness, and love. Confucius taught that once we understand our shared humanity, we open ourselves up to feelings of altruism, respect for one another, and even friendship.

In Confucius’ idea of the ideal state, the rulers were kind, religion was properly celebrated, and the wise were treasured. Despite living in difficult times and often in exile, Confucius spent his life seeking to help others achieve this.

After Confucius’ death in 479 BCE, his disciples spread around the country to advise Chinese rulers in his worldview and political theories. In time, Confucianism became the dominant philosophy in China and other parts of eastern Asia, and remained so for centuries. Confucius’ sayings have endured to this day (and many others have been falsely attributed to the sage). Here are 10 quotes from the extraordinary life of Confucius that exemplify his teachings.

The strength of a nation derives from the integrity of the home.

Confucius was born in 551 BCE in the state of Lu (modern Shandong province). His father, Kong He, was commander of the army garrison and died when Confucius was only three years old. Filial piety, the respect for your parents, would become a central tenet of Confucianism. “When your father is alive, observe his will. When your father is dead observe his former actions,” Confucius said. He believed a loving and respectful family unit was vital to a well-functioning society.

Education breeds confidence. Confidence breeds hope. Hope breeds peace.

Confucius was sent to school to learn the ways of the gentleman. His studies included the Six Arts of classical China: music, archery, religious rites, charioteering, calligraphy, and mathematics. One who mastered these was thought to have everything an honorable person required. Confucius learned to love knowledge, and thought an education could improve a person’s character as well as their mind. He believed learning should be done “for the sake of the self,” and could be a process that lasted a lifetime. “To study and not think is a waste. To think and not study is dangerous,” he said.

If you see what is right and fail to act on it, you lack courage.

Confucius lived in Lu, a state controlled by a family of dukes at a time when rival families were squabbling for power. Many common people suffered as the great lords fought. By 501 BCE, Confucius’ wisdom was recognized and he was given a small town to govern. He thought that just as a family should respect a patriarch, so should a state have one respected ruler. With no army of his own, he used words and persuasion to disarm the feuding powers of Lu.

The man of virtue is not left to stand alone. He who practices it will have neighbors.

Confucius gathered many followers and disciples thanks to his profound wisdom. He sent those he taught to convince important people in the ways of peace and common humanity. His disciple Zhong You was appointed as chief magistrate in the city of Pu (near modern-day Changyuan), and another disciple, Ran Qiu, advised members of the Lu court.

When the archer misses the center of the target, he turns round and seeks for the cause of his failure in himself.

Confucius’ ideas of reform were not met with universal approval in China. His attempts to return rulers to their traditional piety and frugality would have hampered their lavish lifestyles. Other dukes worried that the Duke of Lu would become too powerful with the philosopher by his side, advising him as governor. When Confucius disapproved of the way his lord was behaving, he went into self-exile from Lu. He did not blame others for his distress but turned it into an opportunity for personal growth. He realized that by visiting other Chinese states he could refine his teachings.

Within the four seas, all men are brothers.

Examining how other lords ruled and other people lived only increased Confucius’ belief in the unity of humanity. “By nature, men are nearly alike; by practice, they get to be wide apart,” he said. Confucius believed we could educate ourselves to come together.

When you meet someone better than yourself, turn your thoughts to becoming his equal. When you meet someone not as good as you are, look within and examine your own self.

While in exile, Confucius was always on the move, yet he still found time to learn and to teach. He believed a person was only truly themselves when they were with others: A sage sitting alone in the mountains may be wise but can only be a teacher if they have students. Confucius believed that what is good for society is good for the individual, because each person we meet can have something to teach us.

What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.

One of Confucius’ most famous sayings has been echoed through the ages, often referred to as the “Golden Rule,” and phrased in English as “do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” The basic principle of treating others the way we wish to be treated is found across the world’s religions, cultures, and ethical theories today, and the idea was central to Confucius’ teachings. When asked whether there was one word that could guide a person through life, Confucius replied, “reciprocity.”

At 15 I set my heart on learning, at 30 I knew where I stood, at 40 I had no more doubts, at 50 I knew the will of Heaven, at 60 my ears were attuned, and at 70 I followed my heart’s desire without crossing the line.

Confucius observed that new insights and understanding can be achieved at each stage of life. Looking back on his own experience, he reflected that every new chapter brings a new role to play, and a new chance to grow.

If I hear the Way of truth in the morning, I am content even to die in that evening.

Confucius finally returned to his home in Lu at age 68. He never had been able to put his plans for the perfect state into practice, but he spent his final years with his closest disciples, continuing to teach and advise. After his death at age 72, Confucius’ followers spread his philosophy across China. Confucius’ ideals — such as “Jen,” compassion, and “Yi,” justice — became the foundation of Chinese education. Today he is still offered reverence, as generations of people heed his words and wisdom in a world Confucius could not have imagined.

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Wednesday, August 24

Dry Spell

 I know it has been a while since you have seen what Barb and Butch are doing and the answer is in some ways we are not doing much and in other ways, we are busy. 

My sister Myrla is young enough to be one of my kids; I look at her that way in many instances. I have said for years she should have been a standup comedian and whenever I call her I am guaranteed something to laugh about in less than 10 minutes on the phone. She has always been able and willing to relate hardships in the funniest ways. 

One time Butch was in ER with a cut on his hand and we were talking with the doctor about many things besides Butch's hand and discovered that Myrla had dated him in high school! His take on her was that she was big-hearted and I have to agree. Myrla is many things-all of them interesting.

One of the things about her is that she has had seizures for many years and lately it seems they have happened more frequently. If you know anything about seizures hers are petit mal seizures. And so she was hospitalized on Monday for tests to be conducted to find out the frequency and severity of them. And since she was in Ames Iowa at Mary Greeley Hospital for this we went to see her. Son Jason went with us and we laughed and had "Myrla Fun" for over an hour. They had gathered the information they were after and she was scheduled to go home today. I will be calling her best friend Tara C. to get the results later today.

That took care of Tuesday...Now today Butch was scheduled for a hearing test to find out if his hearing aids were holding up and if his hearing had worsened. This was in Carroll IA. The answer was 'Yes' his hearing aids have held up and 'No' his hearing has not diminished much. His hearing aids are 7 years old.

And that brings us to our new car. Butch is tickled pink with it and he has used the feature of letting it drive itself both yesterday and today. He set it and then only touched the steering wheel one or two times the entire trip when we were on the open road. Not sure that will happen much when I drive it. I have driven it around town and it is nice to drive and much easier than the manual drive we had in the Hyundai. I think I will be far more comfortable driving it. It will still be true that I really am not too crazy about driving no matter what it is. So now Butch is on the golf course...some things never change!

Monday, August 22

Worth the time!

 This is one of the coolest ever videos. What this guy has accomplished is mindboggling! I have long been a fan of tiny homes but this takes the basic idea to a whole new level.

BB

Video of the day

Vet builds unbelievable super-stealth RV FedEx truck conversion

By Cheri Sicard
You are not going to believe the stealth RV that John, an Army veteran, built out of an old FedEx van.

John plans to live in the RV while using his GI Bill to become a helicopter pilot. He only has about 25K into the build, but this innovative stealth RV is built with both room and function in mind at every step.

This is truly amazing!


Saturday, August 20

As the weather cools...

 Thoughts of heading south start creeping in. Realistically we know it is far too early and we won't get serious about it until mid-October for certain. So many things have transpired since we came back in April; trying to blend the possessions in the motorhome with those already in the house, selling the motorhome, buying the car and those are the big things! I still have too many possessions that I wish were at least out of mind. I like to live a sparse life and currently, it is not quite sparse enough. 

The pool hall has turned into a proud possession with many friends both old and new helping us enjoy it. Trivia night on Thursdays is still happening with 10 to 15 participants. It ebbs and flows but there always seem to be enough players.

Butch and I are faithfully in the pool hall at 4:00 each day, mostly just the two of us and that's okay too. My game has greatly improved and I am ever more capable of giving Butch a challenge now and then. Consistency has been somewhat elusive however when I look back I can see the progress I have made and I hope to continue. I look forward to pool hall time each day.

Till next time...

Thursday, August 18

Company Came

 Yesterday we enjoyed the company of Bill and Bev Gunderson from Atlantic IA. We ate at the new eating establishment on the square, The Centennial. It is located in the place where the Tea Garden used to be and it is being run in a similar manner by different people. The meal was terrific but the topper was the cake. One serving was large enough for all four of us!! The cake alone was worth the stop.

https://www.traveliowa.com/restaurant/the-centennial/3774/


Bill and Bev were friends of ours all the years we golfed at Nishna Hills and add to that we square danced together and belonged to the same bridge club. So they were deeply entrenched in our everyday lives. It was so good to spend the day with them. We even played a few hands of Bridge.



Sunday, August 14

Randy Clark Memorial Tournament

 It is held at the Nishna Hills Golf Course in Atlantic IA-our old stomping ground for 20 + years. Randy passed in 2020(not from covid). I usually stay home but Sherri's friend Sam and I decided to follow our players around the course this year. It was a good time and passed quickly. 

It was also the maiden voyage of our new car. Jason and Butch worked on the many aspects of the car and figured out a thing or two. There is more to figure out and I will be getting acquainted soon. To maintain peace in the family it is best that Butch get acquainted first.

Back to the tournament... they shot a 65 and came in second in the 2nd flight. All pars and birdies. So respectable.

Gary scoping out the situation.


Jason takes a putt.


Butch and Sherri are done with that hole...


Sherri putts and Butch and Jason are getting a line on the ball.


When you see this sort of view on the golf course it means someone has lost a ball.


Sherri is lining up to tee off.


A refreshing sight on a warm day.


Gary, Butch, Sherri, and Jason



Thursday, August 11

Toyota Highlander XLE


It is in our driveway and the learning curve has begun! It is very computerized and Butch is not, so this is truly an adventure...for both of us!

 

Northern Bobwhite

 Unfortunately, I did not see this bird. I am an early morning person and I was outside watering my thirsty flowers when I heard the loud and distinctive call of a Bobwhite. This is a first for me. We live on the edge of town but are definitely not 'out in the country', as they say. 

This is what they look like:


And this is what they sound like...

https://www.birdnote.org/explore/sights-sounds/video/2014/06/calling-northern-bobwhite

Sure wish I had actually seen it!


Tuesday, August 9

The 4th Ape.

 


Just got the news...

 We have an appointment to pick up our new 2022 Toyota Highlander XLE tomorrow morning at 10 AM. So far they have not been off on anything they have told us. We love our small-town living!

Remember the Bogeyman?

 This is an excellent article about the bogeyman (hackers). I have always said I am a needle in a haystack and I still think so. Enjoy!

https://www.thundercloud.net/infoave/new/dont-be-afraid-of->njoythe-bogeyman/

Saturday, August 6

Only in Texas?

 Well, maybe not but funny nonetheless...




Helpful Resource

 As many of you know I taught beginning computer classes for many years, both at the senior center I managed in Cumberland IA and at the park in Texas we went to for nearly 20 years. My beginnings in the computing world began way back in 1998. That's a guess. I went to Colorado, along in those years somewhere, to visit my friend Mickey who then was working for the federal government in a computing capacity. She was working while I was there and so I was left with her computer at her home while she was working. She showed me some basic things about it and assured me I could not mess it up bad enough that she couldn't fix it and I took her at her word. My son Gary had tried before to get me interested in having a computer but I couldn't grasp the need...until the Internet and that is where Mickey's focus was. So it all clicked into place. It wasn't long after returning to Iowa that I ordered a computer from Gateway. Remember Gateway?  I sure do because along with a purchase they offered 24/7 tech support and I thoroughly used it! I remember taking my computer apart, and phone to my ear to get the info I needed for the next step. I remember adding more RAM more than once. I did not know at the time, the million or so ways that a computer and more importantly the Internet (netins.net) would change my life. I connected to the Internet through the local phone company. Due to my interest, the phone company sent me to DesMoines for instructions from Netins about the Internet and how it all worked. I was then off and running! 

One of the aspects in my early roaming around the internet was finding stationery for email. I thought it was way cool and used it all the time. And that was my introduction to:   https://www.thundercloud.net/infoave/new/  and Cloudeight Info Ave. And this brings me to today's entry of their beginning intertwined with mine.

Check it out: https://www.thundercloud.net/infoave/new/the-real-history-of-tc-and-eb/

When I have a problem with my Computer/Internet, this is where I go. When someone asks me for computer-related assistance and I know it is beyond my skill level, this is where I point them. They are inexpensive, knowledgeable, and tenacious in getting the job done.

PS: This is also where I get my anti-malware/antivirus protection too. None better and the price is right.

https://thundercloud.net/emsisoft/

Friday, August 5

Not too trivial...

 We had a full house last night for trivia. It was fun as it always is. We had four new people and 3 regulars who couldn't make it. It is funny how these things always work out. The ladies and Glen beat the fellas but it does swing back and forth. It is never completely one-sided.

I would still like a different night devoted to games such as 65 or fast track. I looked up the rules to 65 and printed them out. Playing these games infrequently makes it easy to forget the details of play.


Butch and I have been chipping away at the many things needed to be done around here and for a change, we feel like we have an upper hand. We have done the outside things in between hot spells. This weekend is setting up to be another triple-digit one.

I have been slack on taking photos but here are a few taken recently. An old satellite dish makes a great birdbath. This one has been serving that purpose for the past 8 years.


We frequently drive out to Spring Lake to see what is happening. These were taken yesterday and there weren't many folks around. It is usually much more crowded. Spring Lake holds many childhood memories for me.






Tuesday, August 2

And I am Grateful...

 


Brain Fog?

 Last winter both Butch and I tested positive for Covid. We were fully vaccinated and boosted and our symptoms were not all that bad; like a mild cold and even that went away in about 3 days...but then I started noticing "Brain Fog". This is pretty much what it looks like.


At first, I didn't think too much about it...no pun intended, but then it seemed to worsen! So I googled it of course to see how long I might have to put up with this and the best of the worst news was that it could be 6 months or more. I was about on month three at that point. So I tried to put it on the back burner with a modicum of success.

Life goes on as they say and like most handicaps, you learn to adapt and live with it. Fast forward to a couple of weeks ago and trivia night. One of our players is a whiz on Iowa trivia. I don't use much Iowa trivia because I also use my questions in Texas. Denny asked if he could ask an Iowa question at the end of the evening and I said of course! 

I may not have the question exact. "Trivia question-if the sun rises at 6:00 AM in "Dubuque" IA, how long before the sun rises in Sioux City IA?" Answer: 23 minutes later

The answer just rolled off my tongue and Denny's jaw dropped! I had read this question and answer a week or so prior to his asking it. It was the exact moment I knew that my brain fog had lifted! And ever since that wonderful moment, I have been ever so grateful when my brain functions in its usual and normal way.

Lately, there has been an uptick in the number of Covid cases in the USA and it seems that I hear of a new case of it from someone I know every day! Most of these cases seem to have the factor of travel in it. So Butch and I have returned to wearing a mask when we are out in public. It is a simple thing to do and it may not work but at least I can then feel that I have done all I could.

Stay safe and keep your head about you!



Monday, August 1

It happens...

 Every now and then a snafu will happen when I put a post together and I will discover too late that the links may not do what I hope they should and if I hit the publish button before I have tested them all out it can turn into a mess. A minor mess but still a mess. So now you know what happened to my last post.

Moving on...

Last Thursday at Trivia we talked about good stuff to watch on Netflix, Hulu, and Amazon Prime. Someone said they couldn't find anything on Amazon anymore. I couldn't believe it because 'My List' has oodles of stuff I haven't watched yet but hope to someday. I do find that going to the different sites on my computer instead of the TV works better for me in choosing stuff. I find it easier to check things out. I have decided to make a list of things I have set aside and share them with you. I am aware that tastes differ but surely I can find something we both might like.

So I started a list for Amazon Prime. We have Amazon firesticks on our TV's not sure if that makes it easier or not. But we do not pay a cable company or satellite company for our TV viewing pleasure. It all comes to us straight off the Internet. Different strokes for different folks as they say! Okay back to my list! I had to quit. My hand was getting tired of writing all of them down and it became exceedingly long.

Alone*

Better Call Saul*

The Kominsky Method*

Longmire*

The Crown*

Breaking Bad*

Outlander*

Roma*

Ozark*

St. Vincent*

Frontier*

The Starling

The Nightingale*

Godless*

The Zookeepers Wife*

Mudbound*

The Book of Henry*

Grace and Frankie*

Explained*

Keep Breathing

My Octopus Teacher*

The Hidden Lives of Pets*

My Next Guest with David Letterman*

The Queens Gambit*

This is by no means all of them it just means I quit. And also this is only for Amazon Prime. We have Hulu, Peacock, Netflix and maybe another one I cannot think of at the moment. Enjoy!

The * means we have seen it.



Saturday, July 30

Will it work here?

 https://www.rvtravel.com/scary995/


Butch and I have kept up with www.rvtravel.com for years and we still are, however, I have noticed some drifting away. It is beneficial to a great degree for people who are still RVing. I cannot begin to even count the number of times we learned important info from it. The story above is not overly important but I became gripped in the action. So Rver or not it is a story worth reading.

Enjoy!

Thursday, July 28

Gotta Post!

 I must get these posted before I forget that I saved them. I snip pictures all the time for one reason or another and I save them in a folder named "Snips". I should wander through the folder and post what amuses me! The ones I just saved and those from the past.

Those squirrels are exceedingly clever!

This one I thought my daughter-in-laws might enjoy.



Random choices
Barb at trivia in Trophy

Yup, I liked this one...and then forgot to give it to him!



We live close to the Apple by Ames. 40 miles west of Ames. 50 miles NW of DesMoines.

Irons in the fire!

Keep in touch!







Wednesday, July 27

This age thing...

 The older I get the harder it is to keep up. I do not remember it being all that difficult. I have these thoughts flit through my mind and say to myself, "I should write about that." But by the time I sit in front of this computer I have not the foggiest idea what it was. I think it was excellent. But we are not likely to know now. So we will plunder on and see what pops up.

We have been fighting insects of various kinds all Spring and Summer; for some reason, they do not want to give up easily and are much more prolific. So I asked a friend who she gets to help her with pest control and we called him. He came last Friday and treated our house, shop, and pool hall. We will have him come on a regular basis now that things seem to be under control. It is one of those things I didn't know was bothering me or taking up so much of my thoughts until it was relieved.

We celebrated our 63rd anniversary on the 25th by reminiscing and eating out. See, that age thing pops up a lot these days!  It really seems impossible that many years have passed. And for all you youngun the last 20 years have been the best in all ways possible. Share and being kind to each other always, would be my best advice.

We are suffering a drought and my rain barrel is very near empty. My plants, all five of them, love having rainwater but if it doesn't rain very soon they will be on a city water diet and they hate that!

Our new car was scheduled to be manufactured on the 26th. We assume that it is. So I hope to resume this in the morning when I am much fresher in mind and spirit.

Saturday, July 23

Been on a Quest

 Butch's mother Marion, a good friend of mine and a very good cook, had a chicken and rice dish she would oftentimes make for a potluck offering. I really liked it! And I own the recipe somewhere but the where has been elusive. So I have found similar recipes and I have spent some time modifying them to match up with Marion's and I think I am close enough to unveil it. So here goes...

Nearly Marion's Chicken and Rice Casserole

Ingredients:

1 1/2 cup uncooked long-grained rice

3/4 cup chicken broth or water

2 cans "Creamed of" soup I like chicken and mushroom

1 medium onion, chopped

3 Chicken Hindquarters, seasoned as preferred

Mix the first 4 ingredients in a bowl, and spread evenly in a greased 9 x 13 pan. Season chicken on both sides and place in pan, skin side up, on top of rice mixture. Bake in a 350-degree oven for 1 to 1 1/2 hours. Let sit for 10 minutes before serving. Delish!

Chicken Hindquarters have been on sale frequently at Fareway.





Thursday, July 21

Early morning fun

 My computer setup is in front of the patio and it is often a thing where I stop what I am doing and watch the show in our backyard. Such was the case this morning.

Do you see a rabbit, squirrel, and two blue jays? How often do you see that in one camera frame? And it got better! The rabbit and squirrel started fighting, or was it playing? They both were jumping in the air at each other. I didn't get a picture of that but the jays had enough, early on and left before the hubbub started.



And then there was calm...





Wednesday, July 20

Former Paperboy

 Butch was a paperboy in his youth and every now and again he will fold up a flier or paper in the manner he would before he would get on his bike and deliver the papers by throwing them on the porches of his customers. He was so inclined last night. Do any of you remember that way of delivering papers?



Tuesday, July 19

More DonWes Pics

 It is hard for all of us longtime winter Texans to wrap our heads around the DonWes Flea market no longer being there. Here are a couple more pics.








Monday, July 18

Jason's latest invention

 Our youngest son Jason has always been artistic and inventive. When he was about 10 we had an electric toothbrush that stopped working. He took it apart and returned it to its former glory. And it started there and has continued to this very day. Jason and his wife Laura are retired and I can assure you it has released an inventive giant, having all that extra time.

Here is a video of his latest endeavor. I am sure there will be many more "projects".

https://youtube.com/watch?v=SCtcE88Vkc4&feature=share


Keep 'em coming, Jason and keep recording them Laura! You make a great team!

Sunday, July 17

DonWes Flea Market Fire

Here is television coverage of the fire that has wiped out the flea market. Hopefully, they will be able to rebuild.


 https://www.krgv.com/news/fire-at-don-wes-flea-market-in-donna

Thursday, July 14

Thursday 7/14 Trivia Night

 Today is Thursday and I have my questions ready. Last week was an easy one, I thought. This one is entirely new as I finished putting it together on Monday. I would rate it easy to medium but I am not the best judge on that so we will reassess after tonight.

Yesterday Sue L. and I went with Mickey to her PET scan and report. Mickey is still in a bad way with her back so Sue drove Mickey's car and I was there for moral support. The Doc said he liked the looks of her test and he helped line up a guy (Neurosurgeon) to work on the back issue. They go in with needles and reinflate the vertebrae and then fill them with orthopedic concrete. My Atlantic IA friend Bev G. told me about it and Mickey knew about it too but needed a referral. Her oncology doctor was able to start the ball rolling on that. So all in all it was a productive day. Still very painful for Mickey but hopefully progress was made.

So life putters on and now I will go help Butch put a puzzle together...

Monday, July 11

Not much of note

 Butch and I still play pool for an hour every day at 4:00. I must be getting better because he is starting to grumble when I win. I told him he could suspend the "woman rules" anytime. I assume I will have to get used to it sometime, somehow. We would really like to have some pool players drop by but that doesn't seem to happen. As aging takes place, our peers increasingly can't keep up with us. I attribute much of my good health to being married to a Brooker. I was born into a sedentary family. My mother could sit for hours every day and talk. There are merits in that, but it doesn't help the body stay finely tuned. The Brookers had trouble sitting still! After a few family gatherings on my side, my siblings asked me if Butch ever sat still and in his youth, I can say, "Not much!"

This past week, Gary and his grandchildren came for a few days so I have a few Little Leo stories. Elise hid out in the RV mostly. She is very near her teen years so we all know how that goes. Back to Leo. Elise went with the guys to play golf so Leo and I started to put a puzzle together. I asked him if he would like to try playing pool. He looked apprehensive and I knew why so I said we would have to keep it a secret from Papa Butch. I asked if he could keep a secret. He said, " I can keep a secret but it is a lot easier if I don't have to." So with those words of wisdom, we let it go. I also asked him if he had given any thought to what he might like to do as an adult. He said he would like to be a zoo keeper. He said it takes a lot of math to be a zoo keeper. You have to know what each animal needed to eat and how much each day so you could order the right things for them. I then said there was one job of being a zoo keeper I would not like. He asked what that was and I said "scooping poop". He then informed me that elephants do not have nearly the poop you might think for their size. So apparently that is not a deal-breaker!

Gary took the kids to Big Creek Beach two days in a row. The beach towels make a colorful photo.










Back when it was cooler...But we are still at it!


My Friend Mickey...

 Mickey, one of my lifelong friends, has been battling cancer for the past 6 months or so and she has been on my mind a bunch these days. She has developed some compression fractures in her back, which is a lot of pain to bear. Mickey is tough as nails and has always been so. She carved a very successful life for herself with hard work and true grit. So this seems so unfair. My greatest wish for her is to not have this pain.

I mention this because I usually write about what is on my mind and this is what is on my mind

Thursday, July 7

Car Buying

 Well, it is done! Finally! I find the whole process tedious and nonsatisfying so I am happy to say it is done. It is a Toyota Highlander XLE White and we expect delivery the first week in August.


And it is the very first one we looked at. The trips to and from Texas will be a whole different adventure.

Tuesday, July 5

Butch's Brother Don

 New Diamond Lifemaster



Don Brooker is Well-Traveled


Don Brooker recently attained the rank of Diamond Lifemaster and continues to quickly rack up

masterpoints with his partners. Don took up bridge after he graduated from college and began

working for Western Electric in Chicago. Having no bridge experience, he watched others play and


when someone started up duplicate bridge play at the plant, his colleagues set him up with a part-

ner. He has natural talent because without taking lessons, his partner and he won the end of year


tournament.

His success with the corporate club continued. In 1957 their club held play offs to determine who

would represent the club in the Corporate National Tournament. Don’s team won, beating a team that

consisted of four life masters. HIs team went on to win the Corporate National Championship.

He married at age 20 during his senior year of college. He has three sons in Kansas City, all of whom are

successful. After he and his wife divorced, he remarried and his second wife’s ambition was to move to

France after they retired. They did just that – sold the house and flew with their dog to Paris to drive

around the coast, searching for a place to settle. They discovered Saint-Jean-de-Luz which, as a popular


vacation spot, allowed them to stay for 9 months out of the year but they had to move during the sum-

mer when much higher rent could be charged. They became part of the bridge community and be-

cause they played well, they were popular and made many friends. This came in handy when they


found a place they wanted to rent. The landlord said, “not so fast,” since they were an unknown risk.

Good friends of theirs, a doctor and his wife, vouched for them, and he happened to be the landlord’s

doctor. They rented for six years, “the best six years of my life,” said Don. They returned to the US when

his wife’s son had triplets and needed help with them.

While in France, they traveled around and played bridge. The French games awarded not only points

but money, and Don was a frequent winner, often having his picture in the local paper. He once won

$4,000, and on other occasions won trips to Club Med. Most important were the friendships they made

through bridge, and they visited with those friends throughout the years.

Don met frequent partner Don Stack at “Murial Bridge,” a club that held games several times a week

with huge turnouts. Brooker says his claim to fame was when he partnered with Stack as he earned his


300th point to become Lifemaster. They have been partners for 55 years. In the past two local region-

als, the Holiday Regional in Kansas City and the Topeka Regional, as well as the recent Summer Section-

al, they were the top masterpoint winners. They also played in the Nationals in Reno, and in one of the


National events, they were leading the field by the maximum amount after the qualifying round. Unfor-

tunately, they arrived at the final event a half hour late due to a misunderstanding of the start time.


Their penalty took away their lead and they ended up coming in 6th overall.


They keep their agreements simple, without too many conventions. “Weak no trump has been the big-

gest change,” Don said. When asked about Brooker’s play of the hand, Stack said, “C’est formidable!”

Monday, July 4

Do Not Call list?

 I have been having trouble with getting porn spam in my messages on my phone. I have gotten quite good at blocking the number and reporting spam. It just kept getting worse! So I contacted my carrier which happens to be Google FI. I will enclose my answer from them in a bit but I wanted to ask my dear friends and neighbors how long it has been since you assured your current phone number is on the National Do Not Call List. I know for me it has probably been 20 to 30 years!

Here is the email I received from Google FI. They told me to wait 31 days before taking further action however it worked right away! I have not received another porn one since I added both of our phones to the list! What a simple fix! And that is why I felt I should share the info with you.

Google Fi

Hi Barbara,

Thanks for contacting Google Fi Support.

I understand that you're getting spam messages on your Google Fi phone.

I appreciate your efforts in trying to block all of them and report them as spam. 

I see that the issue still persists. In this case, please be informed that these types of Unwanted/spam calls and texts are problems across the US. These issues are not limited to a specific carrier. However, there are currently multiple resources available for this issue and we are continuing to develop innovations to help combat this problem.  

Please be informed that when you get a phone call, Google Fi also automatically checks if the call is from a fake number. A fake number may happen when a scammer makes an incoming call that seems like it is coming from a number similar to yours or in your area code. If you get a call that says “Verified user Google Fi verified” above the incoming phone number, Fi has verified the call and confirmed that it is not a fake number. 

Fi verifies calls using STIR/SHAKEN technology to identify spam. When you get a call, the caller's phone carrier lets Google Fi know that the call is coming from a real number. Google Fi then verifies that what the carrier says is true. 

In order for numbers to be verified, both parties must be on a carrier network that uses STIR/SHAKEN, so calls that are not verified may still be valid.

As you're still facing issues, we'd recommend you to perform the below troubleshooting steps on your device which could help you in resolving the issue. 

Note: Please ignore the steps which you've already performed. 

Do Not Call Registry: If you are still receiving these types of calls and texts frequently from different numbers, I would request you to register your number to the FTC's National Do Not Call Registry at https://www.donotcall.gov/register/reg.aspx. After 31 days of being on the Registry you should report unwanted messages directly to the FTC.

For more information, please refer to this link.

I am positive that after performing the above instructions, the issue with spam texts should resolve, just in case the issue still continues, then the last option would be changing your Google Fi number. If you wish to get a new number, help us with the ZIP code and preferred area code, so that we'll check and proceed further. 

Hope the information is helpful! 

If you have any further questions, please feel free to reply to this Email, contact us via Chat or Phone (1-844-Talk2Fi). Currently, phone support is limited. We are 24/7 at your convenience!