Friday, January 12

Overscheduled

 You are hearing from a woman who likes her downtime. I am a basic introvert. It takes a long time for me to get lonely. I enjoy my own company. My crafts have taken a back seat while there has been more emphasis on Trivia and Pool(billiards). Photography has also slipped down a ways. I enjoy reading as well and still get some. And we backed up two or three decades this week and returned to square dancing! So it has been an active week. Butch adjusts to the go-go-go much better than I do. I slept in today until nearly 8:00 am!

L to R-Butch, Barb, Caller Ron, his wife, and Mary & Dave Bruun

Yesterday, Butch and his partner Paul Kelleher played at Fast Eddy's in the Golden Age Olympic doubles pool tournament. They won it last year but failed to repeat the feat this year. There were some rule changes, and new 7 ft. pool tables whereby they played on 8 ft ones last year, as well as perhaps just being off their game. Hey, it happens.

There were several other Trophy players in the tournament but none could take home a medal. And the trophy players are tough competition as any of their opponents will attest to.

Arriving at Fast Eddy's-Butch Brooker


Claudette Hogensen



Deb Thompson


Jeff Golly

Paul Kelleher




Butch Brooker


Alex Stinson

Bob Evens





Tuesday, January 9

Where do I begin?

 Sunday Pool...My partner was Kinley Poulsen and we won 7 games of the 10 we played. I think we came in first but I have not seen the official tally yet. Butch and his partner won 6.

Monday I had a dermatology appointment and I saw a different doctor this time. Dr Gonzales took one look at me and said, "You have burned your face!!" "Why did you do that?" I said I thought I was following directions. She said, "No, because you have used way too much!" So I am on a completely different regimen and have to return in a week. I can tell it is much better already.

And then at noon, we went to Alamo Palms with neighbors Dean and Diane R. to a square dance lesson. Yes, you read that right. We haven't square danced for 20 years and we decided to see if we had lost it all or at least tabulate how much. It seems you can go 20 years and still do it!  Oh, we are very rusty but it is coming back. We plan to attend a dance tomorrow night and see how it goes.

I had to get back by 3:00 for a pool hall board meeting. That went smoothly. Paul Kelleher is our Pres. and he is doing a great job. Paul is also Butch's pool partner.

We have a singer/songwriter in our park. He is also Pastor Randy Parks. Randy had helped another neighbor of ours, Gail Feild to write a song. She debuted her song with Randy's help at happy hour! Randy shared a few of his songs and how they came about. Our happy hours are always fun, informative, and entertaining. We hate to miss any of them.

Way too much got crammed into one day and I thank God that doesn't happen all that often. If it did, I would crash and burn more than my face!

Some random photos.

Do you wonder where all the scrap metal goes? A fair amount of it is in South Texas. This metal is not too far from us. 



Sunrise (7:00 am) a week or more ago.


Our neighbor Gail decided to spruce up this very faded fire hydrant. It has its color back! Gail is a woman of many talents.



Sunday, January 7

It happened

 Last night it finally happened. I beat Butch at Pool. Straight up. No special rules. I think he let his guard down a bit too much. It will take more wins to seal the deal and I plan to keep plugging away. I may never be on equal footing but I do plan to give him a challenge worth paying attention to.😁

Saturday, January 6

Caught My Eye


Easy Danish Pastry


1 package (12 rolls) of King’s Hawaiian Sweet Rolls

1/2 cup melted butter

2 tablespoons brown sugar

1 teaspoon ground cinnamon

1 package (8 ounces) cream cheese

3 tablespoons granulated sugar

1 egg, beaten

Watch the video for a full demo of how it is done, but here are the basic steps to making easy cheese Danish:

Spray a baking dish with cooking spray and place the rolls in.

Next, take a serrated knife and cut a small square in the top of the rolls, about halfway down through the roll.

Mix together the melted butter, brown sugar, and cinnamon. Use a pastry brush to brush the surface of the rolls, including the cutout part.

Cream together cream cheese and sugar. Beat in egg. You can use a fork for all of this—no need for an electric mixer.

Pour the cream cheese filling into the cutout holes in the rolls, filling them all the way to the top.

Bake at 375 F for about 12-15 minutes. Let rest for 10 minutes before cutting and serving.

I may try this in a weak moment. If you try it let me know what you think.

Barb B.

Wednesday, January 3

Life today

 as we know it. The park is filling up big time! Everywhere I look it seems there is someone I do not know and they look so young! I have reached a point where trying to learn their names is pointless because unless they happen to be a part of my everyday life their name is not likely to stick. Note to young people: You know that look of fear in their old,wrinkly eyes when you approach the oldest among us? Trust me, it is because they cannot begin to guess your name and they feel as though they should. You might even look like a grandchild and that complicates it even further. Take pity and work it into the conversation and note the look of relief that washes over them.

Parrots: When we were members of Magnolia Park (close to Don-Wes Flea market) from 2003 to 2018. The wild parrots flew over us twice a day. As a result, I have many wonderful parrot pics. This parrot was directly across the street from our RV and with a good lens on top of being close I was able to get a good shot.



Birds on a wire...and they happen to be parrots!
 And Deon, formerly of Magnolia Park and now Trails End has moved from one good birding spot to another and recently captured some high-quality parrot pics right in her own backyard.

Looks like they are having a domestic conversation.


They pair for life and if you see a loner it most likely lost its mate. They also travel in pairs and are very noisy. The noise is when I would grab my camera and hope they landed in the trees. It is one of the things I miss the most.

Trivia is going well. We consistently have 5 teams of 6 to 8 people. The busier we get the harder it is to keep up with the questions. It does help that I have saved so many over the years. They are a fine bunch of people and we haven't had to break up a fight yet.

I am so tired now from searching for pics, I think I will take a nap. Enjoy!

Sunday, December 31

Sunday Pairs Event

 This was the Sunday that we played pool with whoever we signed up with and we had a full rack of players, 12 teams. That means we all played 11 games. I heard from a few that they would like that to be the format for more than one time in a month. Maybe...We will see. Isn't that what your Mom always said?

The winners were Barb and Butch Brooker with 9 wins. Sally and Paul Kelleher were second winning 8 games. And new Sunday players and new to our park this season,  Diane Justice and Jeff Utter won third place with 7 wins.

See you next Sunday for mixed doubles play. If you sign up, show up. And if you have an issue come up, scratch your name off the schedule. Thank you all for coming to play. The more the merrier!

Barb Brooker

Happy New Year


Best Wishes Always!!

Loss

Our daughter-in-law Laura lost her father Paul Hike SR this past week. He was in a lot of pain at the time of his passing so now he can rest. All of us who have lost a parent know the stress of it. And our thoughts are with her.

Friday, December 29

Tasty Beef Bumps

My friend Mickey puts some very delicious-sounding recipes on Facebook. And I might add she is a very good cook. It's in her genes! The problem with many very good recipes on Facebook is that they are in a video format. Have you ever tried to follow and make a video recipe? I have a soft spot for beef and cabbage recipes and there was one that looked very promising so I jumped on board. First of all I searched the internet for a printed version to no avail. And I suppose now someone will send it to me.😏

I watched the video numerous times and here is my journey. 

Rough Draft



Cleaned up version



My saved version

 And if you have made it this far and have an interest here is the one you can copy and paste!

Tasty Beef and Cabbage Bumps 12/29/2023

1# ground beef

½ small cabbage, shredded

1 small onion, chopped

1 egg

1 tsp salt

½ tsp pepper

1 tsp Paprika

½ tsp Tumeric

2 cloves garlic, crushed

Mix and form into 6  “bumps”. Place in a greased 8” x 8” baking dish.

Bake at 360 degrees for 45 minutes. Remove from oven

Mix together 3-5 OZ of mozzarella,shredded, 

2-3 TBS chopped parsley, and 2 TBS Mayo. Place spoonfuls evenly 

on bumps. Bake @ 360 for 10 minutes




Long, long time ago

Pictures from  way back

 

A very young Butch Brooker



Butch's brother Don



Butch's brother Leo

Kite day on Padre. Maybe 2012?




 The golfing years. I was there but when you are the photographer you are rarely in the picture.
Did you ever have to put around a tree on a green? Butch did.



Gary, Jason and Butch.

I was looking at Pictures on my computer and this was the result but now I simply must walk away from the computer and do something else!

Tuesday, December 26

Saturday, December 23

Merry Christmas to all!

 

What I want and what I have...are the same thing.

I saw this quote on a friend's post and it seemed true to me. There is so much greed and power hunger in the world that it becomes more difficult to maintain a positive outlook. I will keep on, keeping on. I wish everyone in the whole world could say that what they want and what they have are the same thing. So that is my hope for the coming year. Unrealistic? I know it is. I will keep hoping...


Friday, December 22

Flood Gates Open

 The next couple of weeks the flood of Winter Texans will be flowing into the park. Our park population will nearly double for January and February and then in March it all reverses itself.

As for us, we are settled in. It seems to take a little longer each year to establish our routine. I keep thinking it will get easier and it has a little. It took us much longer than I anticipated to transition from the motorhome to our Texas home integrating that with our Iowa home. I am now what I can safely say comfortable with all of it. Our todo list and our want to change lists are in the past. That can change at any moment. I say that not seeing anything on the horizon.

We went to Sam's Club in McAllen yesterday and judging from that we will keep our Sam's Club visits for Iowa. It is just a few days from Christmas so I suppose that has something to do with it. Butch had his leg run into by a woman pushing a cart. And the isles were full of people and carts trying to go in all four directions.

It was definitely not a place for us rural Iowa folk who like our wide open spaces. I don't even like to go to our hometown Fareway when the number of people is too plentiful.  Oh well, we are happy as clams and grateful as all get out for the life we have the privilege of living and we hope you are too.

Till next time!

Tuesday, December 19

Flying with the times!

 An old lady once told me that as you age, time goes faster, and now that old lady is me! Although, yesterday an old man, upon finding out my age, told me I didn't look it. Men are such flatterers! 

Butch and I decided to go to Mexico yesterday because we were out of a few things we tried to keep on hand. But first, we went to the Christmas program the elementary students from across the street perform for us every year. Their teacher told us they have a curiosity about Trophy Gardens and enjoy coming here. The program was such fun to watch and it was encouraging to see the interest, talent, and enthusiasm for music the 4th and 5th graders enjoy. I hope more of us old folk decide to come next season. Here are some pics of the school kids.









After the program, Butch and I went to Nuevo Progreso, Mexico. It was a very busy place. One of the biggest surprises was the immigrants on the return bridge waiting to be okayed to enter the USA. They covered nearly half the bridge. We have never seen that before. More on that later.

We went down to Hectors and I emailed my list of things I wanted and he had them bagged up for me so the transaction didn't take long. We usually like to visit with Hector a while but he was too busy so we left him to his business.

We then went back to 'Jessica's' where we usually have lunch and when we arrived we saw some Trophy folk and joined them. They were going for pedicures after lunch and we decided to join them. Butch and I have never done that before but we were up for an adventure. It was wonderful and we will go back for more. It cost $12. I have nothing to compare it to but I am thinking it was a very good deal! Here are some pictures taken of the pedicure adventure.

Sandi M. and I. 

Sandi is a neighbor across the street, not to be confused with Sandi D. next door north of us.

from right to left is Pete, blank, lady, Ron M., Butch, lady, and Mikie.

Butch and I were so busy before we left Iowa that we missed his Podiatrist appointment so this event was a blessing. His feet have never looked better.



Linda P. was on the other end with me. Keny opted out. Maybe next time!

I should have taken a before and after of Butch's feet.

After the pedicure, Butch and I headed home. The walk on the bridge is one I think every American should make. First of all, it was very sad. There were several nationalities represented, some orientals, and mostly people who looked like us. The languages spoken were not SPANISH. We never heard one word of Spanish or anything that sounded like it. In speaking to a young Hispanic woman ahead of us in line she speculated they were mostly Ukrainian. They were all well-dressed, well-kempt, and polite.  They mostly looked like us. Not one of them looked shady in any way. Our world is such a mess on so many levels and we all need to put ourselves in their shoes because there is no guarantee that we will not be in the same predicament someday. One little red-headed, blue-eyed boy of about 3 caught my eye. He and his parents will be sleeping on a bridge tonight.

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Remember Butch and his episode of Vertigo? I had the same thing happen to me. I know how odd that sounds and believe me it was ODD. I woke up and went to the bathroom about 3:00 and when I came back to bed and sat on the edge of the bed, the room started spinning. I immediately tried to follow the same maneuver we had for Butch and it worked. I wasn't very sure I had remembered it properly. The vertigo went away but nausea stayed with me for a long time. I hope to never have it happen again but in talking to the folks who told us about the maneuver it still happens to them. Not often but it still lurks.
Getting old isn't easy, my friend!



Friday, December 15

My Friend Colleen

 Colleen and I walked the bike trail in Jefferson every morning at 7:00 am. We both agreed it as the best possible way to start the day. Colleen was a year behind me in school and her sister Denise was in the famous Class of '61'. The O'Brien girls and I have had a nearly lifelong connection. Both of them are writers.

This column was in the Greene County News Online. Aside from that, this is my blog and I have the pleasure of posting what I think is good writing. This qualifies.

“Will you be a dictator?”

December 13, 2023

~a column by Colleen O’Brien

This question was asked of once-president Trump this fall in an interview with Sean Hannity, as well as by countless political columnists, broadcast news folks and authors of books on Trump from both sides.

He says, “Only on Day One.” This is when he will close the borders and “drill, drill, drill,” to cop a quote from Sarah Palin, a political has-been before she even started as a 2008 GOP vice-presidential candidate. He sometimes says he’ll get rid of people and entities that have not been “nice” to him: CNN, MSNBC, certain prosecutors, some judges. It is a long list of things to do on the first day of a presidency.

Do you ever wonder if he’s seen the list of people he’s not been “nice” to?

The Donald, as he was known when he played a third-rate TV conman,  pretends ‘Will you be a dictator?’ is a conspiracy question from the looney Left or a made-up accusation from the “fake news” media (his borrowed term for the legacy press like The New York Times, The Atlantic magazine, etc.). The “fake news” term came from the mainstream press labeling Fox News with that little bit of wit because of their continued lying about Trump winning the election of 2020. Thus, this is the Far Right being adept at blaming the Left for what the Far Right itself does – a bullying tactic. It’s a psychological trick that has become obvious and tiresome.

And he continues to throw in frightening ideas like dismantling the Department  of Justice and the entire “deep state” –  to him, this means the middle class bureaucracy of the United States – all those people who work in the government at ordinary bookkeeping jobs for $50 or $60 thousand a year and if eliminated would shut down the government. Do the folks working in these positions their entire lives realize this election is about losing their jobs?

Do women understand that the Supreme Court’s repeal of Roe v. Wade was heavily influenced by The Donald? That it is the beginning of the re-subjugation of women, one of the first things a misogynist who wants to be a despot pounces on to begin his reign? Talk about a sickening possibility:  it makes me wonder if I would buckle under? Would I go along with being muzzled? Who knows? I’ve been challenged for writing something unpopular; I survived:

It was 1987, when I freelanced for a newspaper at Lake Tahoe in Nevada. It was Martin Luther King Holiday, and as had been going on for 20 years, a large coterie of Black wealthy and political from Oakland, CA, came to Tahoe for the weekend to raise money. They held dances, skied, ate in the expensive restaurants,  shopped in the tourist stores and donated money for disadvantaged kids of color in the San Francisco Bay area. After the highlight of the weekend dinner dance, several partygoers retired to the posh restaurant on the Lake for after-dinner drinks. At the bar near them three upstanding white men from town (a bank president, a junior high principal and a wealthy retiree who lived on the Lake), held corks over candlelight and blackened their faces.

The sommelier of the restaurant called me at 1 am to tell me what was happening and asked if I could write about it because I worked for the local newspaper. She said she had tried to get her boss to “eighty-six” the three men, but he would not toss them out because they were regular customers as well as upstanding citizens of the town.

Soon, the black men in the adjoining room noticed what was going on – white men blackening their faces like in the minstrel shows of the 19th and early 20th centuries– a commonplace theatrical way to amuse white men by portraying Blacks as ignoramuses and buffoons.

It was a historic racist mockery played out in late 20th century time, and my friend, a black woman whose parents had been diplomats her entire life, was determined that the situation be publicized.

The next morning, I contacted the head of the Oakland group, the manager at the bar, the banker and the principal (I could not get a response from the rich lakeshore fellow).

The head of the fundraising group from California told me flat-out they would not be returning to this “once-favorite venue” for the annual fundraiser. That meant that after two decades of filling the coffers of a Lake Tahoe resort, they would find another place less racist, less rude, less behind the times.

The banker said he could not believe I’d publish something like this when his bank gave so much money to the community. The principal said I would ruin his career. These men obviously did not understand the role of messenger in a case like this; they were the ones who did the deed of racially dehumanizing behavior, not I.

I wrote the column, sent it to my editor, who did some checking and okayed it, warning me that things would hit the fan and to be prepared.

The publisher was the first to throw the dirt my way. “You cannot publish this column,” he said and turned away from me. I said I was a freelancer, not his employee, whose copy had been approved by the editor, and he’d better talk to him, the editor being his employee. My editor maintained the necessity of the column as a piece of reputable news in a democracy.

The column went to press.

 And then the deluge. It was more than two weeks of letters to the editor, pro and con. It was phone calls to me – threatening, lambasting, sometimes with the caller’s name, mostly anonymous; it was also congratulatory and well-wishing people. And it was a note from a fellow columnist in the big newspaper in Reno, criticizing  me for attacking a fellow he admired (the principal). I was shocked at this columnist hitting out, for he was a liberal like me, and I had admired his writing and been friendly with him in a professional way. He was defending a friend, fine; but he was denigrating his own belief in his country’s long, slow attempt at promoting the equality of all men.

~~~

The point of this is that racist behavior must be exposed to the light of day. We cannot pretend the most famous Tweeter of all Tweeted for the Mexican country’s benefit as a “caravan” of Latinos marched toward America: “This is an invasion of our country, and our Military is waiting for you.” He liked hyperbole. A young boy brought here by his parents illegally and who had finally become a citizen thought he could now be free from fear, but discovered the law still picked on him. “It’s because I’m brown,” he said. “It doesn’t matter that I’m a citizen now. I was naive to think it would change things.”

In 2017 The Don restricted legal immigration, and two dozen people died in detention, including seven children. Even before that, he said, “Mexico is not sending its best, people coming by the hundreds.” And his favorites: “Mexicans are drug smugglers, criminals and rapists. Some, I assume, are decent people”; and suggesting a judge should recuse himself from a case because of the judge’s Mexican heritage.

This is not a man to vote for again, so keep thinking about his threats/plans/lies and promises about being a dictator. He vociferously admires countries led by dictators – Russia, the Philippines, North Korea. Laugh at him if you can, tell jokes about him if that relieves you, don’t ignore him.


 Take him seriously. It’s difficult to trust a lying man about anything, especially this one, because this liar could be elected by your vote as the dictator of your existence.

Thursday, December 14

This and that

 My friend from our Magnolia years, Deon uses 'This and That' when she posts something difficult to label. We need to get to Trails End and visit our Magnolia family.

Our friend and neighbor Sandi is home from the hospital. She has what they call Pyloric thickening. Another of those things that can happen to people of an age. You can do a google search for an explanation if you want to know more. We are glad she is home because the neighborhood has a big hole if she isn't here! 

I would like to say there are not enough hours in the day to get done all I would like to do. However, that is not entirely true. 24 hours is plenty but my energy clock is winding down. We have both become members of the Nodding Off generation. While watching TV, we might just nod off. We are both healthy and happy and that is more than enough to live on.



Wednesday, December 13

I forgot about last Saturday

 Last Saturday Renie, Linda, and I walked our usual 2-mile route at 7:00am. It was Winter Ranch's garage sale day. Winter Ranch is the RV Park next door to ours and is part of the same ownership. So as we were walking, we were getting an early peek at garage sale items. I spotted a golf bag with clubs and thought Butch might have an interest and I also spotted a couple of chairs that had been in an RV, foldable and on the small side, that I could see replacing the uncomfortable folding chairs we were currently using.  I came home and told Butch about it as he was still in bed. He sacrificed some sleep and delayed breakfast to scope things out. We ended up with the chairs and the golf stuff. 

The Golf Bag

The putter, one of a full set of clubs.

Close-up of chair

This where they will be used.



Tuesday, December 12

This past week

 I have 5 minutes until I meet 'the girls' for our walk. Renie has a prior commitment but Linda and I will do our usual route and then I will come back here and finish all I can remember from the past week.

Last Thursday Butch and I took care of several loose ends. We made our first stop at the dermatologist for follow up. No cancers were found but we do have some skin issues. Minor skin issues. Next stop was at the CVS Pharmacy in Donna TX to see what the hold up was in getting my meds. I needed to contact my Iowa heart doctor to get that cleared up. And then the next stop was at Dr. Vela's office to pick up the paperwork we needed to fill out before we could become patients of his in an emergency. It is called continued care. He is in Alamo, so much closer if we needed to see him. 

And then I wanted a haircut so we stopped at Bertha's so I could get a haircut with Sally. Sally was doing a perm so it was going to be a LONG wait, we left with the idea of coming back later. This particular salon does not work by appointment. It seems strange to us but has worked for them. They have several women working there and it is always a busy place. We went to Costco and Chase Bank before returning to Bertha's only to find a second perm had come in the meantime. I gave up on the haircut and returned the next day for it. Sally told me then that no appointments are ever made and if you want any service you walk in whether it is a perm or a trim. She said it is very unusual to have two perms walk in back to back and that is what had happened.

Saturday our neighbors Bill and Sandi went to ER because she was having chest pains. She was admitted to the hospital and has been there ever since. They at first thought it was heart-related but have backed up on that. And then maybe Gallbladder. So nothing definitive yet; she is in the process of getting processed.😊

Bill and Sandi host happy hour every day at 4:00 at their place and we have been filling in. Yesterday there were 10 of us. It doesn't happen if it is too cold or raining. It is a pleasant way to wrap up the day. It is a bring-your-own drink and no controversial conversation event so we can always say a good time was had by all.

Sometime in the past week, Sandi told Butch he had a deadline for getting Christmas lights put up. He got it done!






The blue color is not paint. I took these with my phone and didn't fuss with them like I usually do.

The next ones are our neighbors. There are more now than when I took these.






Sunday, December 10

Accepting change?

Sundays in the Pool Hall (12/10/2023)


Some people have trouble with change. I wrote this to try and simplify the size of the change. Don't sweat the small stuff. 😁


"The standard platform for Sunday's pool event consists of pairs of people signing up to play in a competition. Your playing partner is determined by drawing a name from a hat. There has been one small change to this platform. On the last Sunday of the month you are playing with the partner you signed up with.

The rules of play have not changed. Nothing else has changed and there are no plans to change anything.  If you are not happy with the change the solution is simple. Do not sign up for the event if it is the last Sunday of the month."

Barbara Brooker