I get this question frequently and this article from people I trust answers the question very well. So if you are wondering, wonder no more.
Barb B.
I get this question frequently and this article from people I trust answers the question very well. So if you are wondering, wonder no more.
Barb B.
We received word that our heater/AC will be delivered today (Friday) between 1:00 and 4:00. I think Butch plans to install it right away. That should keep him busy for a few minutes at least.
The even bigger news was from Alex at Good Life RV in Webster City Ia. They have received the parts they were waiting for and will schedule the fix of our MoHo in the next two weeks. So that means the only hold up for our annual trip south will be where we are in the final Pool Hall construction scheme of things. And in reality, we could wrap it all up and leave it where it is at the moment. We very much do not want to do that for many reasons. So, no matter what, we are sitting in a better position than we were a few days ago.
Word from South Texas looks good as their COVID numbers are way down and their County health people in charge have stepped up in setting their own rules and it seems they are getting cooperation from the locals. It will be a much different season than in years past because, for one thing, the Canadiens are taking a pass this year. Their insurance is phenomenally high for them and with good reason. And the border is closed. Sending them to a Country with the highest number of COVID deaths in the World doesn't seem like a good idea. Hopefully, things will look much better a year from now.
Last Pictures I took:
Starling
It is the WAITING GAME!!! We can't go anywhere because someone we are wanting to do something may show up. The most important one to us is the insulation guy. We could be doing other things but it all hinges on him. Heat/AC is supposed to show up tomorrow. That is just a delivery. Butch will install it. The garage door man was going to call us back. Haven't heard from him. If you have ever gone through a construction project you are familiar with the waiting game. We have been quite lucky thus far with the only hold up being a week of rain.
This too shall pass...
I ran across this on Facebook. It was posted by Bill and Jo Brookers daughter-in-law, Pam. All three of those just mentioned have had Covid-19. Please keep this info in mind when you head out the door without a mask, go back and get it. I know I will.
Barb
“Chickenpox is a virus. Lots of people have had it, and probably don't think about it much once the initial illness has passed. But it stays in your body and lives there forever, and maybe when you're older, you have debilitatingly painful outbreaks of shingles. You don't just get over this virus in a few weeks, never to have another health effect. We know this because it's been around for years, and has been studied medically for years.
Herpes is also a virus. And once someone has it, it stays in your body and lives there forever, and anytime they get a little run down or stressed-out they're going to have an outbreak. Maybe every time you have a big event coming up (school pictures, job interview, big date) you're going to get a cold sore. For the rest of your life. You don't just get over it in a few weeks. We know this because it's been around for years, and been studied medically for years.
HIV is a virus. It attacks the immune system and makes the carrier far more vulnerable to other illnesses. It has a list of symptoms and negative health impacts that goes on and on. It was decades before viable treatments were developed that allowed people to live with a reasonable quality of life. Once you have it, it lives in your body forever and there is no cure. Over time, that takes a toll on the body, putting people living with HIV at greater risk for health conditions such as cardiovascular disease, kidney disease, diabetes, bone disease, liver disease, cognitive disorders, and some types of cancer. We know this because it has been around for years, and had been studied medically for years.
Now with COVID-19, we have a novel virus that spreads rapidly and easily. The full spectrum of symptoms and health effects is only just beginning to be cataloged, much less understood.
So far the symptoms may include:
Fever
Fatigue
Coughing
Pneumonia
Chills/Trembling
Acute respiratory distress
Lung damage (potentially permanent)
Loss of taste (a neurological symptom)
Sore throat
Headaches
Difficulty breathing
Mental confusion
Diarrhea
Nausea or vomiting
Loss of appetite
Strokes have also been reported in some people who have COVID-19 (even in the relatively young)
Swollen eyes
Blood clots
Seizures
Liver damage
Kidney damage
Rash
COVID toes (weird, right?)
People testing positive for COVID-19 have been documented to be sick even after 60 days. Many people are sick for weeks, get better, and then experience a rapid and sudden flare up and get sick all over again. A man in Seattle was hospitalized for 62 days, and while well enough to be released, still has a long road of recovery ahead of him. Not to mention a $1.1 million medical bill.
Then there is MIS-C. Multisystem inflammatory syndrome in children is a condition where different body parts can become inflamed, including the heart, lungs, kidneys, brain, skin, eyes, or gastrointestinal organs. Children with MIS-C may have a fever and various symptoms, including abdominal pain, vomiting, diarrhea, neck pain, rash, bloodshot eyes, or feeling extra tired. While rare, it has caused deaths.
This disease has not been around for years. It has basically been 6 months. No one knows yet the long-term health effects, or how it may present itself years down the road for people who have been exposed. We literally *do not know* what we do not know.
For those in our society who suggest that people being cautious are cowards, for people who refuse to take even the simplest of precautions to protect themselves and those around them, I want to ask, without hyperbole and in all sincerity:
How dare you?
How dare you risk the lives of others so cavalierly. How dare you decide for others that they should welcome exposure as "getting it over with", when literally no one knows who will be the lucky "mild symptoms" case, and who may fall ill and die. Because while we know that some people are more susceptible to suffering a more serious case, we also know that 20 and 30-year-olds have died, marathon runners and fitness nuts have died, children and infants have died.
How dare you behave as though you know more than medical experts, when those same experts acknowledge that there is so much we don't yet know, but with what we DO know, are smart enough to be scared of how easily this is spread, and recommend baseline precautions such as:
Frequent hand-washing
Physical distancing
Reduced social/public contact or interaction
Mask wearing
Covering your cough or sneeze
Avoiding touching your face
Sanitizing frequently touched surfaces
The more things we can all do to mitigate our risk of exposure, the better off we all are, in my opinion. Not only does it flatten the curve and allow health care providers to maintain levels of service that aren't immediately and catastrophically overwhelmed; it also reduces unnecessary suffering and deaths, and buys time for the scientific community to study the virus in order to come to a more full understanding of the breadth of its impacts in both the short and long term.
I reject the notion that it's "just a virus" and we'll all get it eventually. What a careless, lazy, heartless stance.”
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We painted the house in late July of 2017. We will be getting the Pool Hall painted with the same paint and will purchase it in the same place. Diamond Vogel Paint in Fort Dodge Iowa. Permacryl Exterior Latex Semi-gloss It is very handy to have these things recorded.
Russ finished up yesterday. The structure is finished. Yet to be completed are the garage door installation, insulation, heater/ AC, inner walls and ceiling, outdoor cement, indoor plumbing, floor paint, exterior paint, final electrical, and perhaps other things not entering my mind at the moment. So as you can see we are still a way away from complete completion. Some of it may naturally happen next Spring. We hope not but sometimes you must accept facts. Or as it turns out we may have time. Our RV is waiting for parts and we have no concept for how long this might take. Still hoping for a late October arrival in South Texas.
Not just for RVing. I thought this was excellent and useful for all relationships.
Barb B.
It is said that wherever your relationship is going, traveling together in an RV will take it there sooner. Here are some thoughts and pointers for traveling (and living) in close quarters with your loved one.
Does your brain work like this: “If I think one thing, and somebody else thinks differently — well, then, if I am right they must be wrong.” Ain’t necessarily so. Two people can be very different, and both can be right. Remember that old “I’m OK — You’re OK” book? Same idea. Blame, hurt, guilt — these are all part of being wrong, and they should not be part of your RV cargo.
Remember how hard it was for you to change something in yourself that you really wanted to change (quitting smoking, fear of snakes, whatever)? Imagine if someone was demanding you change. Now imagine how difficult it would be to force a change in someone else who doesn’t even want to change. Let’s face it — we can barely, sometimes, make small fixes to ourselves. There’s just no way we can fix the other person. Let’s not try.
Are you more concerned about loving your partner well or that your partner loves you? When you disagree, are you more concerned for your partner’s welfare or your own? Who would you rather turn out to be right? (There’s that word again.) Look for ways to care more about your partner than you care what he/she thinks of you.
When you know they’re wrong (there’s that word again), and you know exactly how they can fix it, and you just can’t keep your mouth shut (this happens to us all) — give them the choice — really, give it to them. Be fully okay with what they decide. Try using a question instead of a command: “Do you think it would work better if you tried this?” instead of, “You should really do this thing this way.”
We’ve heard this so often that we no longer listen. All of us are riddled with imperfections. We’ll never fix them all — so let’s concentrate on the serious issues and let the petty stuff slide. Ask yourself: Is this really a serious issue with your partner? Be honest.
A fundamental truth: Every human on earth makes the best decision they can at every moment of their lives. Sometimes they base decisions on horribly flawed data or dismally bad influences, and very poor decisions result. But those crummy decisions are the result of the information worked with, not any intrinsic failing of the person.
Love is mercurial, capricious, magical, and maddening. Respect, on the other hand, is foundational, heartfelt, and lasting. Know, deeply, that your companion is being the best person possible. Respect them for that and help them — cooperatively, gently, supportively — in any way you can.
In relationships, patience is a huge virtue. Today’s insufferable torture can well be tomorrow’s minor annoyance. Today’s steadfast refusal to change drifts into a bemused “we’ll see” later in the week. Moods and attitudes do change — even your own.
Be honest with yourself. A “want” can be a must-have or a nice-to-have. Try to place as many as possible in the nice-to-have category, because this enables that “choice” for your partner. A must-have is a non-negotiable demand and should be used rarely if at all. So what if you are presented with a must-have? A refusal puts you both in the rock-and-a-hard-place scenario — not good. How about a more flexible, “I really, really want this (grin)” or “Well, let’s talk about it (wink),” as a starting point.
Approval, respect, love — these are not for sale. “I’ll do the dishes, you take out the trash” is fine. But approval, disapproval, love, or shame should not be involved. Every partnership is a compendium of trade-offs. Make them cheerfully. If you love and respect your partner, you will not be concerned about getting the best of the deal; in fact, you’ll try to give them the advantage — because they are worth it.
Greg Illes is a retired systems engineer who loves thinking up RV upgrades and modifications. When he’s not working on his motorhome, he’s traveling in it. You can follow his blog at www.divver-city.com/blog.
Butch and I are featured in this issue of the RV newsletter. In case you want to know, the pic was taken at Jessica's in Nuevo Progreso by a friend and neighbor in Trophy Gardens, Candy Dewey.
It may not be that long but it seems like FOREVER! Work on the pool hall has come to a screeching halt. We now have to wait till it dries up. Nobody wants to work in the mud and I do not want them to. One of my biggest dislikes about new construction is MUD. This too shall pass as we all know. Another lesson in patience.
We are watching PBS, Netflix, and Amazon Prime Video. The NUMBER ONE REASON for this is we do not have to mute through the political ads. Once in a while, we will stray back to the local stations and quickly get reminded that we do not want to be there. Butch is needing to watch mindless TV right now because one of his hearing aids is in the shop for repair. He can not hear important dialogue if we are trying to watch something of substance. Our current show of choice is Sneaky Pete (Amazon Prime)
Everything seems to be working normally and that is good news. We received news that our window had arrived for the 3 season room so we could take down my makeshift one made from a garbage bag. We now must wait for things to dry up so we can get the outside odds and ends finished on the pool hall and then we can get things started indoors and weather will not be a factor. We did get 2.2 inches of rain. Much needed for people in general. I have known for a good long time I could easily be a desert rat.
My computer and phone are both working as well or better as they were before. It is good to lay your head down at night without a care in the world, and I must say that is true for me most nights and I also know I am a very lucky woman for that to be true. Wishing you all the same.
Literally and figuratively. It started off with a virus on my computer and it is proof once again that even someone who helps others in this field can get caught in a weak moment. It was the Driver-Fixer virus. It popped up on my computer while my mind was somewhere else and I exed out of it and then of course it kept popping up. So I contacted my virus protection people (Emsisoft) and they helped me get rid of it but it was a long arduous ordeal with many steps. It was one of those things where you had to print out the directions because there were so many steps. This took pages and hours but it was successfully annihilated.
Reminder: When something pops up unexpectedly and it was not initiated by you, do a hard shutdown immediately. Press that power button and hold it down until your computer shuts off. Then when you restart your computer it will be fine and not infected. Don't touch that pop up! Just Sayin'
And then my phone went wonky. Was it related? I am not sure but do not think so. So I have been working with the phone people to get it working correctly. The problem was the date and time kept showing January 22 2001. No matter what I did, and I did plenty, it would go back to that date. Now that might have been something a person could learn to live with but that was just one of the problems. When I texted people my response did not show on my phone and/or it said "message not sent, tap to send again" but of course that did not work. It might work correctly for a few minutes but then $%#@@&^! So the last resort was a factory reset and I did that yesterday. Now in that process, they suggest you remove your apps one by one to see if it was one of the apps causing the problem. I had 41 apps so I removed them all except Google Play. So as of late yesterday, it was still not working. I woke up this morning and it seemed to be okay but then I started working with it and I noticed the Facebook app had come back. I know I deleted it because I do not use Facebook on my phone. Never have, never will. And then I deleted it and Google Play. So now the only apps I have are the ones that come with the phone from the factory.
And then Butch got a phone call that a check he had written for cement work had not arrived and it had been a month. So a very large check is floating around in the postal system. He checked his account and it had not been cashed so he stopped payment on it and will issue them a new one.
That is three so we hope we are done. Oh yes, it did start raining and it is still raining and cold. The thermometer has been stuck on 44 for the last 18 hours. Enough already!!
We feel like we are on vacation. No action is taking place on the 'Pool Hall'. It is Labor Day Weekend and every day feels like Sunday. It started yesterday because Russ took the day off and went to a Motorcycle Race and will not be back to work till Tuesday. Those guys have been putting in long hours and deserved to take it easy. It does feel different after the constant activity around here.
Butch and I took a tour of the county, Greene County Iowa. This is something we do a few times every summer. It was very much a part of my childhood. My father loved to swim and so every night that I can remember through the summer months we would go to Spring Lake. We also rode around to get a breeze on hot summer nights because this was before AC in most homes. So our tour of Greene county always brings those memories to life for me. For Butch, working for different power companies he always became acquainted with all areas where we lived because he frequented those roads in connection with his work. Often times at night and in the midst of storms all year round.
In our travels near Squirrel Hollow we come upon Jerry's Auto, a business neither of us knew existed. It is quite sizable too! Of course, there are also people who do not know Squirrel Hollow existed either.
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My friend Sherri Clark runs a daycare and has for a very long time! Whenever I needed a baby fix I would stop by as she always had one to hold. She took this picture of her kids.
Butch being a lineman for many years I knew he would love this picture. They do seem to be fascinated.
Sometimes it is fast, sometimes it is slow and sometimes frustrating. This is a medium day. Butch and Russ are working on north side siding. By appearance, I would say half done but it is a side that takes a lot of fitting as they near the top. The sleeve for our heater/AC arrived today. It was just shipped yesterday! That was fast!
In the meantime, I washed and scrubbed down the entry and steps on the east and west side of the house. They were both infected with a combination of dirt and mildew and have bothered me most of the summer. My mini-powerwasher is in the motorhome so I made do with bleach, water, and a broom. A more satisfactory solution and a coat of paint will have to wait for another day or perhaps for another year.
I am beginning to think there has been way too much crammed into this one.
Here are some interior photos. You cannot yet picture the concept of it all but it is safely in my vision.
I stood in the middle of the room and rotated. This is the future home of the bathroom and kitchen area.
The leak in the plumbing has been fixed. The water from the leak did not appear on the surface because pea-rock had been used as fill, and therefore, served as a holding tank. The leak happened because of a split where a junction was made with the existing pipe. Blame was talked about but the phrase it didn't leak before but now it does was repeated. Our monthly water bill was always the same prior to the new plumbing so the leak is "new". It is mostly rectified. Accidents happen and there is no point in dwelling on it.😌
Butch has finished as much of the electrical as he can until the insulation is blown in and that can happen any time as far as we are concerned. But the guy who is doing it is stacked up a bit and so it will be a week or two until he can get to it. Butch asked him what happened to the company we hired to do our house because we could not locate them at all in our area and he said he ran them out of business. He is considerably less expensive than the last time we had this done so I am guessing he is correct. My job today will be covering the electrical boxes that are installed to keep them from getting filled with insulation. Butch will be working with Russ on the siding.
Russ installed the two entry doors and the three windows last week. The garage door is still a few weeks away. When we lined that part up they told us it would be 4 to 6 weeks. Not what we wanted to hear. We are ready for them too so we can be sealed off from the weather. Not much of a worry as the drought is hanging on severely. Every time we look at radar they are getting rain north of us and south of us but we are stuck in the middle with no rain. They said on the news that our area has had no rain for 69 days and the last rain we did have was meager at best and did not qualify as a drought breaker.
Whenever the first of September rolls around we start looking south, at least in our head. Still not sure what that means for us this year. I asked for a timeline on the RV repair and was told we would be notified when they had one. When we took it to them we told them it had never been winterized...hint, hint. It feels so strange to look through my "computer" window and not see the motorhome sitting there waiting for us.
Also notice how 'airy' the trees look after the derecho. When golfing it is always said that trees are 90% air and this kind of attests to that.
I will be adding interior shots very soon.
Yesterday the guy from the water department stopped in front of the house and was checking our meter. It seems some high usage was showing up. So we started investigating and woe and behold we have a huge leak and it has been leaking since August 13th. We do have water for the house but the line going to the RV sites in the backyard is where the problem is located. At least we think so. It could be the new line going to the pool hall. However, there is a shut off on that line and it has not yet had any use. So now every line but the one to the house is shut off and waiting for repair. The plumbers who worked on it have been notified but haven't shown up yet and no word as to when they might. We have a meeting with the board of the water department to negotiate a solution for cost on September 22. The guy did a quick estimate of the cost and said we didn't want to know. Needless to say, the plumbers are not getting any good words from us now and perhaps never.
There are no visible signs or indications above the ground. I would say "when it rains, it pours" but rain is another thing we do not have.
I had forgotten how tied down you are when you start new construction. You either have to be on-site because somebody's going to stop by for an assessment or deliveries of needed supplies. And there are probably a dozen other reasons. I am so used to Butch wanting to go with me when I go grocery shopping that it feels strange to go alone. What can I say, the guy likes to go grocery shopping. Now I know where Gary got it. When Gary was about three I needed to go to the grocery store for a quick trip and he wanted to go with me. I took off in the car without him and unbeknownst to me, he followed me. it was also unbeknownst to his father who was at home supposedly taking care of him. A policeman came to our door with a 3-year-old Gary asking if that was where he lived. Thank God this was in 1964 and we lived in a small town or we probably would have gone to prison.
But back to the present -Butch is out in the pool hall doing electrical wiring and he reported to me a few minutes ago that he was about one-fourth done. That is good news!
Last weekend Jason came over to help. Butch needed to connect the house electrical box and take it through an underground trench to the pool hall or vice versa actually. Suffice it to say, it got done. We had it all set up for when Jason came to help and it went rather smoothly. Jason even helped us fill in the trench.
Butch has also been helping with the siding when Russ needs an extra pair of hands. I think you can tell by now that Butch and his leg are getting along fine as long as Butch doesn’t push things too far and forget his limitations. The only wrinkle lately is the ladder he likes to use because it is lightweight and also very wobbly and unsafe. He bought it at an auction for $2 several years ago and it has been the scene of more than one accident for him. As I watched another wobble this morning I told him it was going to mysteriously disappear some morning about 6:00 am. I will carry it (very lightweight) to the curb and let some other DumbA-- break his neck. Every time I see a nice ladder on sale I point it out but until the wobbly one is gone he won’t do it.
We are having a heatwave to match the drought. Just when you think this year could straighten out yet one more thing piles on to the load.
Here are today’s pics:
Do you care to take a guess on what the estimate was for our RV to be repaired? The estimate from GoodLife RV in Webster City Iowa has been accepted by our insurance company so now we hope they get right to it so we can go south come October, maybe late October. I won't keep you in suspense. $17,700+!!
Butch rented a trencher for the electric wire to go from the house to the pool hall. I helped as much as I could but anyone who knows me also knows if it has a motor I have a natural and everlasting disgust for it. It is too early to say if either of us had bit off more than we could chew. Actually, I think we got by with it. The rental trencher has been returned, the trench is done and we both are still able to function. So on to the next adventure!!
Butch has started the electrical. He has the boxes in place and I would guess that by the end of next week the electrical will be as done as it can be until the insulation gets installed. Russ has started on the siding. The garage door people will be here today to sell us what we want.
They have come with their big equipment and removed the tree branches and logs from the parking in front of the house. Yesterday and this morning I raked up the bits that are too small for them to get but too big for the lawnmower; not that it matters much because the drought is still hanging on. We happen to live in the 5 or so county area in Iowa that is getting the worst of it.
Have I posted these? Since I can't remember I will rectify it later if I must. The tree refuse is before the big machine came.
Chop up yellow tomatoes, red tomatoes, red onion, cucumber, celery, red bell pepper, and yellow bell pepper.
You’ll also need some chopped fresh basil and fresh parsley, plus a little more chopped basil for garnish if desired.
Get a large plastic or glass bowl big enough to hold all the ingredients. Put red wine vinegar into the bowl.
In food processor with steel blade combine garlic with sea salt (or use mortar and pestle and then add the salt mixture to the food processor bowl.)
Add tomatoes to food processor and pulse until desired texture. Put tomatoes into a plastic bowl with vinegar.
Put cucumber and red onion into a food processor, pulse to desired texture, and remove to a bowl.
Repeat with celery, red pepper, and yellow pepper, pulsing together.
Stir parsley, basil, olive oil, lemon juice, tabasco, Worcestershire, and tomato juice into vegetables in a bowl.
Add more tomato juice if it seems too thick. we thought 2 1/2 cups were just right.
Taste and season with fresh ground black pepper and more salt if needed.
Chill overnight for flavors to develop, although you will probably have to have a bowl or two before putting the rest in the refrigerator!
“You couldn’t relive your life, skipping the awful parts, without losing what made it worthwhile. You had to accept it as a whole–like the world, or the person you loved.” ― Stewart O’Nan
I haven't posted anything on the progress for a while or at least it seems that way. Butch is starting on electrical. Russ has the soffit done on one side and he most likely will finish it and the other side today. Then siding, doors, and windows will follow. Butch and I plan to do the interior walls after it is insulated so it is coming right along.
Our motorhome being in the RV hospital is concerning us. It must be finished before we can go to Texas this fall. Also, we did not realize how much we used it for storage. Maybe storage is not the right word. We did not take many items out until we needed them, such as I had an abundant supply of eyeglass cleaner packets. Guess what! I ran out in the house and they are in the motorhome. This has happened on different items 3 times now. Not earth-shattering in the scheme of things.
Butch must be doing better with the healing of his leg. He is leaving his canes in the house once again. And last night when he came in from working in the pool hall he was not limping as much. The PT people in Texas told him it would be 6 months at least and maybe longer. September 7th will be the 6-month mark of the great fall.
Here are pictures I took this morning:
Butch and the boys, Rich, Gary and Jason played in the tournament last Saturday. The four of them have picked a day in August for the past three years now to play in a tournament somewhere. This is the second year for Nishna Hills in Atlantic Iowa. It is the course Butch and I played for twenty years and quite often with Randy and Sherry Clark. Randy passed away in late April so this year's tourney came with mixed feelings and a tear or two.
The guys played well and felt good about it despite that they didn't finish "in the money". The format is such that it is somewhat a matter of luck anyway.
They topped their day off with a meal at the Redwood in Anita Iowa. A very good place to eat. In the twenty years we lived in the area we ate there often and never had a disappointing meal. Masks and social distancing were abided throughout the day and evening.
By the way, Sherri do not let them get by without a picture next year! Butch told me you offered but he told you we had one from last year! Men!!
This is the one from August 2019...and Randy took this picture.
I have a long list of smaller projects. Some of them have been on the list for years but what better time to do them than now. The final home of both of these projects will be the pool hall. That has been the spark that got me going instead of just thinking about it.
Here are the pics of the finished projects: Both of these projects were given to me by friends. I am sure they will recognize them when they see them.
The chairs had a label on the bottom of the seats so I researched them and found out they are a Thoney Bentwood chair. New ones can be purchased today for $303 each. Nice gift!
Another great and timely column from my friend Colleen. Her columns come each week in the opinion section of greenecountynewsonline.com
When folding sheets, make the first fold lengthwise down the middle. If you are making the bed by yourself, you won't have to go around to the other side to verify that the lengths are the same on both sides. You just use the fold down the middle to guide you.